drama: parenthood.
parenthood. is. so. freakin'. good. (and there may be some spoilers in here! beware!)
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the family dynamic on that show is unlike any other i've seen on t.v. they're close and supportive of each other, they go through good times and they have rock bottoms, and they talk about real life 'issues' that a lot of people avoid in real life. (having a child with asbergers, intimacy issues with growing older, infertility, single parenthood, job loss, alcoholism, adoption, dating outside your race, etc.) and they deal with them in really real ways. they argue, yell, and scream. they hug, cry, and lean on each other. some scenes aren't pretty and some are so beautiful they bring you to tears. this show makes me feel like i'm an honorary braverman. god, i love that family...even if it's just on t.v.
since i dvr the show to watch a few episodes at a time (kinda like a movie), i'm constantly behind and i don't even care. the storylines on parenthood are so real and the writers and actors really make you feel like you're watching an actual family.
each episode makes me think a particular character is my favorite, and truth be told, they all are my favorite. camille, the matriarch, is exactly how i hope i am as a mother of adult children. she is so smart and supportive, but tries not to interfere too much. ("sometimes being the perfect parent isn't worth the blood on the floor.") her husband, zeek braverman, is the patriarch, played by craig t. nelson. he does a phenominal job at being a die-hard, man's man kind of father and grandfather. like camille, he tries to let his kids solve their own problems, but when he butts in, you listen. you listen with more than your ears, you listen with your heart. he has lived. he has experienced. his words are full of wisdom and you hear them loud and clear.
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the four adult children are adam, sarah, crosby, and julia. and, just so you know, this show solidifies my childhood dream to have siblings. if there was one thing i'd change about my family, that would be it. i loved being an only child, but, especially as an adult, i wish there was more than just me. but, i digress...
adam is a hard-working husband to kristina and dad to haddie, max, and baby nora (who is so new, she's not pictured!).
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haddie is in high school and she's an honestly good kid. (i can see a lot of myself at 17 in her.) she'll be off to college next year and poor kristina is beside herself that her little girl is all grown up. but she's still got a little girl in the house now that baby nora arrived. however, the news of a baby surprised everyone...kristina found out she was pregnant at the same time as adam lost his job. (luckily, adam is back to work...more on that later.) and max is the young man of the house. and max is very, very smart. much of what we saw of this little family in the first season was max's diagnosis of asbergers. due to the growing numbers in our country of children with asberger's and autism, i think it was important for a mainstream, popular t.v. drama to bring the issue out in the open and make it real and relate-able. and i think they've done an excellent job. especially at the beginning, it's not easy to talk about having a child with asbergers when you're trying to figure out what your child needs. it's probably even harder to talk about having a child with asbergers after you lost your job and you're still trying to figure out what your child needs. and it would probably make my head spin right off my neck if i found out i was pregnant after my husband lost his job, all while trying to figure out the best way to nurture and teach my child with asbergers. and yet, parenthood shows us it can be done. you may cry, yell, or even leave your husband and two children on the street while you drive away with the baby in the back of the van because whether they want to have family night or not, dammit, you are going mini-golfing. but, you love. you love your family, you love your life, and you live. every day the best you can.
sarah is the single mom of amber and drew.
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sarah (played by lauren graham) and the kids had to move back into the braverman house after some financial troubles. (another real-life issue that people feel ashamed of, and shouldn't, but parenthood throws it out there.) sarah's a hopeless romantic. she's creative and loves writing, but her life always ends up very complicated. she's got an alcoholic ex-husband (played by john corbett) who is finally making the changes she's been asking him to make since amber's seventh birthday. and, of course, she's finally happy with someone else. amber recently moved into her own apartment and, after some troubles of her own in high school, is finally coming into her own. and so is drew. the poor kid used to be so quiet and awkward, but he's recently started spending time with a nice girl that lives nearby, amy. she loves music and hangs on drew's every word. zeek tries to encourage drew the best way a grandfather can, by sending drew to her house with a tool zeek had 'borrowed from her father'. and by 'borrowed', drew found out, zeek really meant it was his and wanted drew to talk to amy. cute little budding romance. and, i totally squealed on the couch when he leaned in for their first kiss. love that dorky teenage love!
crosby, like sarah, has a bit of of complication in his love life.
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during the first season crosby (played by dax shepard) was bombarded by a woman he dated briefly years before with news that they shared a son, jabbar. jasmine had kept jabbar a secret because crosby is a little flighty and irresponsible, and she wasn't certain he'd make a great dad. well, he proved her wrong. crosby is a wonderful, loving, and doting dad. he loves to play, read, and learn with jabbar, which is exactly how you want your son's father to be. he can act silly, play games, encourage and discipline and jabbar still looks at crosby like he's his hero. unfortunately, things between jasmine and crosby have fizzled due to a few issues, but crosby's professional career as a music producer is just taking off. when the 'luncheonette', an old famous recording studio, became available, crosby recruited adam to go into business together. it wasn't easy convincing adam, who was not only newly unemployed but also very practical and not a risk-taker, to go into business with his flighty, least responsible sibling, but in braverman tradition, they are forging ahead and making their dreams come true. their first client to record in the studio? cee-lo green. success!!!
and then there's the youngest braverman, julia. she's married to joel and they have a daughter sydney. julia and joel are both very smart and very driven. they are also independent and once their minds are made up, there's no turning back, no matter what zeek and camille say.
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julia is a successful corporate lawyer and although joel was a successful contractor, with the economy failing and building projects coming to a hault, he decided to stay home with sydney. not a bad gig, if i do say so myself. he's very popular with all the stay-at-home moms, which drives julia crazy. what also drives julia crazy? not being pregnant, like yesterday. they are desperately trying to expand their little family, and with every negative pregnancy test, julia gets a little more desperate. now, they are planning to adopt. and, in true julia fashion, they're doing it her way. the agency hasn't been as helpful as they'd hoped, but...the barista at the coffee cart in julia's office is pregnant and she's in no place in her life to care for a baby. julia to the rescue! as a wonderful mother herself, julia wants the barista's baby to have the life he or she deserves and have a wonderful, doting mother. i can't wait to see how this all folds out.
okay, that's enough. you get it, i love this show.
so, if you're in the mood for some good ole family time, with an amazing t.v. family, parenthood is the show for you. it's inspiring, funny, humbling, and just a joy to watch. check it out: nbc on tuesdays at 10pm. or dvr it like me. or watch it on demand or online. just watch it!
adam: a wise man once told me that we always have to forgive each other and
not get hung up on the past.
zeek: team braverman.
=) andrea
p.s. i wasn't paid or perked for this post. it's all my own thoughts and opinions.
































